By Dean Cortez

I’ve spent many nights learning the best ways to pick up the hottest strippers. I even wrote a book that contains dozens of cool techniques for connecting with “exotic dancers” in the gentlemans club and building real connections with them, instead of them viewing you as a customer.

Most importantly, you’ve got to know how to frame yourself as a valuable PRIZE so that she wants to give you her phone number, and see you outside of the club.

Let me share a tip with you that works with all women. (Lately, I’ve been perfecting my “strip club game,” so I’ve used it with several hot dancers.) Let’s say you get her phone number, and a day or two later, you call her (when she’s not working) to take her out somewhere.

Here’s a principle you need to remember. When you’re trying to score with a woman, you’ve got to eliminate her feelings of UNCERTAINTY.

Women have all kinds of reasons to NOT talk to us, to NOT go out on a date with us, and especially to NOT sleep with us. Hot strippers are no different.

They won’t tell us these reasons… but believe me, women have them. A lot of this is because they don’t feel secure with you yet.

So here’s a real fast tip if you want to take a stripper on a date and get RESULTS the same night…

Don’t offer to come to her crib and get her. This might set off “red flags” in her mind. If she barely knows you, she might not want you to know where she lives.

This is understandable. A lot of chumps (not like you) have stalker-ish tendencies,

and maybe she’s been through this with a guy before. Or maybe she knows a girl who has. (Strippers, as you can imagine, deal with a lot of customers who get obsessed with them.)

So if you got her phone number, and this is the first time you’ll be meeting her one-one-one, don’t suggest picking her up.

Rather than doing it that way, and failing, use a smart technique. Tell her to meet you out in front of YOUR place. Give her your address, tell her to meet you out front at a certain time, and tell her that the two of you can “roll together” to the spot.

(The bar, coffee shop, restaurant, party, etc — wherever you plan on taking her tonight.)

She’ll go for this suggestion because of two reasons:

A) It eliminates her fear that she’s going to have to try to find the date location, and she might get lost. You’re making it easy on her by suggesting that the two of you go there together.

B) She’s going to be curious about the type of place you live in, naturally. You didn’t say anything about having her come into your place. You only asked her to meet you out front. But still, she’ll be curious to see the exterior of your pad.

So now, here’s what you do. When she pulls up outside your place, you go outside with a smile on your face, as if you’re all ready to go on the date—and then say to her “Oh my God, I forgot I need to make an important phone call (or send an email) before we go. It will only take a sec. C’mon inside.”

So, you bring her into your place, and you let her hang out in the living room for a few minutes while you go into the other room and pretend to be taking are of some business.

And then, a few minutes later, you rejoin her in the living room and go with her on the date.

What was the purpose of this exercise? What just happened is actually SUPER important. You showed her the inside of your home and you let her get familiar with it.

It is no longer a strange environment to her.

There is no longer a “fear of the unknown.”

At the end of the date, when you use your techniques invite her back to your place, this doesn’t feel scary to her because she has already been inside your home, and knows that it’s comfortable and inviting.

(Note: it is critically important that your home is clean, and that your bathroom is spotless. 90% of the time, she’ll ask to use it. Have some scented candles and plush bath towels in there, to score extra points.)

This sounds like a simple Tactic, but it really works. I ALWAYS show a woman the inside of my home, just for a few minutes, before I take her out on a date. It has a subtle but very important psychological effect, which lays the groundwork for later in the evening.

Before I started using this Tactic, when I would invite a stripper back to my place at the end of the date, I’d be successful around 50% of the time.

When I DO use this Tactic, the stripper will come home with me around 90% of the time. (And when they come home with me, I know how to close the deal — it’s all in the Mack Tactics book.)

It all comes down to knowing how to eliminate a woman’s “fear of the unknown,” and ease her feelings of uncertainty.

These emotions are constantly cycling through a woman’s brain when she’s with a guy she doesn’t think she “knows” yet. Guys are completely different—if the girl is hot enough, we’d drive to the worst ghetto at four in the morning, in a blinding rainstorm, just to bang her! 

But if you invite a woman back to YOUR place…and she’s never checked it out before…she might worry that it’s filthy, or that you have a weird roommate, or that it’s too far away,

or whatever…there all kinds of little “red flags” popping off in her mind about why maybe going to your place is NOT a good idea.

And that’s when she’ll say, “Umm, thanks, but not tonight, I need to be up early tomorrow…”

Well, you can sidestep all of this, and set her mind at ease, when you “preface” the date by inviting her inside for a few minutes.

Then, at the end of the night, when it’s time to invite her home… it feels to her like a MUCH safer and more comfortable scenario, because she’s already been inside.

That’s the exact technique I used last night, and I’m telling ya, it worked like a charm

Check out this program and learn how to dominate the gentlemans club. Why be just another chump customer, playing THEIR game and spending your hard-earned money on nothing… when these sexy women can really be yours?

Your Wingman,

Dean  Cortez